The Worst Kind Of A Best Friend

I really messed up this time. I know I always mess up but this time around, it’s different. I feel ashamed and embarrassed that I belted out my anger in public but I have to say that it feels good. But I messed up. Claire is my best friend or used to be as of…

6 Sure Signs You’re Definitely Crushing

At some points in our lives, we have crushed on one or two persons. We tend to deny this fact and claim it is just a random feeling. Crushing on someone is actually not a bad feeling. It becomes bad when you get in trouble as a result of the crush. Are you having that…

Making the most of my life before I’m ’30’

30 for some people is the age to get laid, to get a new job, to get married, to acquire some degree, and other wishes in our bucket list. Many times, we dream of things we wish to achieve before the big’’30’’ and by the time we know it, we wake up to realize we…

5 Things To Do When You’re Feeling Blue

A few days ago, a man jumped off Third Mainland Bridge in Lagos. He died by suicide. A day later, a woman jumped off the same bridge but was rescued. Luckily for her. The man was found to be a medical doctor- his family still can’t accept the fact that he’s dead. A saddening fact….

Everyone makes mistakes…but you should avoid these 5 while dating

There are some mistakes that we get into and we find it easy to move on, there are some mistakes that actually gets one into guilt and feeling of displeasure and some of the mistakes are due to youthful exuberance, wrong relationships, upbringing and self-will. Often times, these mistakes have long lasting effects on our…

A Girl’s Guide To Getting Over Heartbreak

Experiencing heartbreak is something we all don’t want to experience, after all the promises, the unending love and the emotions. It kinda sucks real bad when things don'[t work out the way we want them to but that’s just life. We meet shitty people who treat us in shitty ways and get away with it….

The Proposal…

They settled into the comfy leather chairs and adjusted their sights to the huge screen before them. Arms interlocked, Jess and Bernard were the picture of the perfect couple who had come to enjoy a nice movie at the cinema. They were seated on the topmost row. To Bernard’s right, Jess’ childhood best friend, Paul,…

7 Ways to Stay Single and Super-Excited

So you’re single? Whether you just got out of a relationship or have lived the single life for an overstretched period of time, being single has its merits and demerits, but no matter how you feel on your single status, one thing remains true: you are free like a bird. And if you are like…

What Do Men Want?

Most times, women love to be at the receiving end, they always crave attention, love and all the most unimaginable things you think guys don’t need. But the truth is this; men desire love, they desire everything ladies also crave. Men often find it tasking voicing out and they pretend it’s all cool till they…

Dear Lara, I Think I Masturbate Too Much. I Need Your Help

Dear Lara,  I am a 21 years old lady. I have been masturbating since i was 15, I do it by crossing my legs and clenching my thigh muscles and leg muscles. I do it anytime I feel upset or when I feel tired, sometimes before, after, or during sleep. In fact, I do not…

7 Romantic Evening Tips (Not Just For Valentine)

Romantic evenings are when you want to sit down with your partner and connect verbally and emotionally. These special moments can revitalize your relationship and increase the intimacy between you. Planning a romantic evening for your loved one will express your affection for them and show them how much you care. You can plan an evening…