How To Start Your Own Business Without Stress

Part 1. Nigeria has the largest economy in West Africa and one of the fastest growing economies in the world. Cool, right? This means that there are untapped niches and small-scale and large-scale industries that you can actually invest in or start and you would make it. With the high rates of unemployed graduates and…

This Thing Called Fear

The first time I came second in my Primary 4 class, I was terrified. No one had prepared me for what would happen. I had not imagined that I would, one day, pry open my report booklet to behold “2nd” written boldly on the top right corner of the page. I could not hold myself….

Choices…And Consequences

You’re not ambitious. Those were my friend’s exact words to me a year ago. What do you mean you will resign from your job to do a Masters in Communication Studies? Are you okay? Do you even think about your choices? I could tell that he was disappointed, a little upset even, and I tried…

#MondayMotivation: How To Beat Workplace Blues

“there are no bad days, just bad moods” As a worker, entrepreneur, or manager, it is normal to feel crushed by the weight of everything you have to do. There are days you feel like you can rule the world and there are other days when you just don’t feel like you’ve done anything worthwhile….

When To Call It Quits: The 5 Warning Signs

Most times, it is not when a relationship ends that it actually does. Often times, we have dealt with insecurities, lies, infidelity and other issues in the relationship. We must have weighed our options, thought about it, before finally saying it’s over. As difficult as it sounds, we just need to accept when we are…

The 5- Step Plan To Help An Emotionally Incompatible Partner

The issue of compatibility among couples has raised many topic and unending issues in homes. Many times, men complain about how incompatible their partner is in the bedroom and maybe at places outside the bedroom. When a partner becomes withdrawn emotionally, it becomes difficult to connect. This could pose some threats to the relationship and…

5 Warning Signs Of An Abusive Relationship

Abuse comes in many forms in a relationship. You could be emotionally, financially, mentally or psychologically abused without knowing. Many people are in relationships where they have no clue what is going on. Most times, when you are in love, it becomes almost impossible to say whether you are abused or not, you cover it…

5 Signs You Are Totally Depressed

Depression is a state of mind so many people find themselves out of no choice or self-will. Depression if not curbed could linger on for long and have adverse effect on you, your relationship and those around you. Many times, you try to figure it all out, wonder why you are down, low in spirit…

How Not To Expect When You’re Expecting (From People)

The biggest reason why we most often get disappointed in life is when we expect too much from people…most often the wrong people. In our relationships and interactions with others, we expect too much- we feel, most times unconsciously, that once someone makes a promise or says something, they will fulfill it. However, people tend…

17 Easy Ways To Stay Poor (For As Long As You Want)

So you might be thinking, “what kind of blog post is this?” Well, the kind of blog post that is meant to show exactly how people set themselves up for poverty and for failure in life. I was wrote in an earlier blog post that “there is no rest for the successful” but in this…

Were you really born that way?

I see a lot of people claiming rights over an attitude, habit or character…most often the bad type and they say “I was born that way”. I see some with a distinct lack of drive and enthusiasm in those things that are more than enough in giving them an upper hand in life. And there…

The Art Of Making Yourself Happy

I used to think that being happy was something that people triggered in you. I felt that happiness was something you could only feel either when people are happy or when they deliberately tried to make you laugh. I also felt that happiness was dictated by material possessions. I tried so hard to find happiness…